Comments on: What a woman means when she says: “It don’t matter”…

By: whitney

whitney — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 20:12:56 +0000

If she says “It don’t matter”, then she needs to go back to elementary school.

By: Lucy

Lucy — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 15:15:03 +0000

It dose not matter

1 – if she was going to do something for you and you refused it then its just simply it dont matter

2 – if she brought you someting and you did not want it and told her to take it back cuase it was exspensive then it becomes a – ouch – and you have upset her

3 – you was going to do someting but could not make it or did not want to go 1st time it dose not matter and means nothing 2nd time it dose not matter maybe next time 3rd time in a row you are stepin on thin ice
and she will detach herself if it happens again

4 – you both had a small row – it dose not matter end of argument before you piss me off

5 – women are complicated

By: Chef

Chef — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 17:32:26 +0000

Why is it that when someone actually puts things truthfully in a humorous light the people who the humor is most about launches an attack? Oh wait I answered my own question lol.

By: Matt Foley

Matt Foley — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 23:52:49 +0000

Every women I ever met says that phrase at some point or another. It doesn’t mean anything more than she loves you very much and is displeased with you at this moment. It wears off very quickly and life continues.

By: ppelz

ppelz — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 17:53:48 +0000

means*

By: kdog

kdog — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 23:10:27 +0000

make a graph about it

By: Snoweh

Snoweh — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:59:53 +0000

that went in the wrong place Fail..

By: Snoweh

Snoweh — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:59:26 +0000

Oh, hold on… Damn me and my dirty mind.. :p

By: Snoweh

Snoweh — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:57:16 +0000

Actually i’d say the ‘wants to be left alone for a bit’ wedge should be bigger…

By: KELLI

KELLI — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 01:34:08 +0000

Im pretty sure when people say “it doesn’t matter” to me… im f-ing hating on them at that point

By: 3rthReich

3rthReich — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 22:27:08 +0000

Despite typos, the graph is 110% true…

By: pinsNneedles

pinsNneedles — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 20:16:41 +0000

or throw stones, in an upward sort of direction..

By: FyreWytch

FyreWytch — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 18:04:20 +0000

Well yeah.. The other have of saying “It doesn’t matter” is that in hindsight? It really doesn’t.

Little things don’t matter.. But you can still easily become upset by them. You can say “It doesn’t matter” angrily but also realizing that it really… doesn’t matter. O.o

For example, I was going out to lunch with my boyfriend and he decided to invite his brother and sister-in-law. They also decided we were going to walk the mile and a half to lunch. I was in new shoes. In hindsight, it really didn’t matter that he decided all of this, I like his brother and sister-in-law.. but I was angry he didn’t consult me for any of this decision making. So my “It doesn’t matter, hon..” was bitter sounding, but in reality, it didn’t matter.

By: Badpie

Badpie — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 17:51:24 +0000

What a woman means when she says “It don’t matter”: She means she never passed 3rd grade English.

By: Kelly Too

Kelly Too — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 15:47:35 +0000

I agree, that’s so true! I don’t care what the rest of you guys say, it’s true.

By: Mohit Valecha

Mohit Valecha — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 15:07:11 +0000

I will say.. she means…”Go f**k your selves..” or may be “Go to hell”, or “you piss me off all the time baby,,,learn something and come back….” haha

By: FadedLY

FadedLY — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 12:42:49 +0000

As someone born female, I will add my 2c here by saying this: EVERYONE has done this at some point in their life, saying “Oh it doesn’t matter” when to you, it truly does and you feel hurt. It doesn’t matter what set of privates you were born with.

The person that made this chart must have been feeling some sort of angst (most likely of the teenage variety) towards women. I personally, and almost no one I’ve ever known, has used “It doesn’t matter” when they’re still hurt as a manipulative measure — they use it because they’re tired of the conversation and they want it dropped before anything further gets said to hurt them worse. Sometimes things just need a break before they can get properly worked out. Fact of life, kids. Gender is 100% irrelevant. Yes, honesty in conversations helps, but it doesn’t always work when all parties involved aren’t on board.

By the way, the one person I’ve known to say things like this to manipulate others was a male friend of mine; he also liked telling others they weren’t as “honest” as he was.

Read that how you will.

By: Cinnabar

Cinnabar — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 07:13:02 +0000

I didn’t say you were referring to all women. Also, since no one ever stated support of mind games, it was never really obvious who you were ranting about to begin with… your address was directed at “Ladies”, which is strange since it’s now clear you had specific people in mind. I would have assumed anyone ranting at specific people would have either addressed them by name or at least placed their comment/s in reply to said people, rather than as a standalone remark. I would nest an insult in here, but to me you look foolish enough already.

By: Sewer Rat

Sewer Rat — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:19:40 +0000

As a woman, I appreciate you not interpreting that post as a direct attack. I’ve met a lot of people who would do just that. WIN. And thank you to slupine for such an honest post.

By: Sewer Rat

Sewer Rat — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:10:46 +0000

That would doubtlessly make it more amusing.

By: Cowlifornia

Cowlifornia — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:02:37 +0000

heh! and our not!

Doh! another one bites the dust!

*wanders off singing ‘White and Nerdy’*

By: jl5691426

jl5691426 — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 02:49:12 +0000

Where’s the slice for “She might be a redneck?”

By: DeathWyrmNexus

DeathWyrmNexus — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 23:20:27 +0000

Just figured I would cover my bases as a number of people didn’t read the first line of my initial rant and took things personally.

Glad we’re cool. XD

By: bionelly

bionelly — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 22:51:49 +0000

Um, excuse me? Where on earth is *that* coming from?

By: bionelly

bionelly — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 22:48:06 +0000

I don’t know about FyreWytch, but I didn’t really think you were talking about me. I just responded there because she was talking about using it in exactly the same way I do, and then I responded to myself because I wanted both of my posts to be together. So no worries, DWN.

By: Baliame

Baliame — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 22:12:08 +0000

Seconded.

By: blurb

blurb — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 20:33:25 +0000

lol

By: blurb

blurb — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 20:28:56 +0000

I think the most hilarious part of this graph is how many comments it’s brought. Kids, it’s a sterotype. Treat it as such.

By: blurb

blurb — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 20:25:11 +0000

win

By: Jim

Jim — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 19:48:52 +0000

OH! Is THAT what the proper grammatical structure should be?! Thanks, Darleen!

By: James the Conquerer

James the Conquerer — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 19:34:55 +0000

For further explanation, see Paris Hilton.

By: Tek9

Tek9 — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 19:26:39 +0000

Erm…actually attention whore is a subset of a larger group known as “whore”. Whereas in most common usage, yes “whore” refers to the definition of one who engages in sexual activities while also usually omitting the monetary compensation that goes with it (which is technically a slut). An attention whore would be designated to the definition classifying “whore” – A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain. which is still a whore, the gain merely refers to attention.

By: James the Conquerer

James the Conquerer — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 18:33:13 +0000

In one. ANY adult relationship.

By: James the Conquerer

James the Conquerer — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 18:32:19 +0000

Keep you clap to yourself.

By: James the Conquerer

James the Conquerer — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 18:25:48 +0000

Seconded. Nth.

By: kevin

kevin — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 18:11:56 +0000

ps – attention whore != whore

By: kevin

kevin — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 18:11:08 +0000

you missed the point of the post, darleen. what Brilliance meant was that there aren’t many women who fit correctly into the graph, so it should be retitled to accurately portray only the subset which Brilliance clarifies. dumb whore.

By: kevin

kevin — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 18:08:27 +0000

i approve.

By: DeathWyrmNexus

DeathWyrmNexus — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 17:57:00 +0000

Glad he is an ex. Men like that need a stiff beating as they make the rest of us look bad.

By: Nash

Nash — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 17:43:27 +0000

Yeah, I tend to divide people, not into men and women, but idiots and non-idiots.

By: James the Conquerer

James the Conquerer — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 17:33:39 +0000

Bionelly thinks she’s he center of the universe here at GraphJam. Everything’s about her/it

Kick a@@ DWN! Fu(king passive aggressive game players need to realize they are destroying all credibility within a relationship. I don’t care what gender your are — speak your mind, or be ignored for the idiot you are.

By: DeathWyrmNexus

DeathWyrmNexus — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 16:43:51 +0000

That just makes you awesome and unfairly targeted by the LOL.

By: Seddah

Seddah — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 16:30:50 +0000

I’ve said “It doesn’t matter” plenty of times, but never in the way the graph implies. I usually end up saying it (or “never mind” or “it’s nothing”) after I ramble on for a minute or so about absolutely nothing and am then asked what I said. I say that it’s nothing because it really is.

By: DeathWyrmNexus

DeathWyrmNexus — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 16:16:47 +0000

Ya know, I think you just kicked the crap out of me in the direct yet properly pointed comment category. Damn, that was great.

By: Gustav

Gustav — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 16:12:04 +0000

Yet I’ll bet you maintain that a relationship needs honesty, trust, and communication to work.

By: DeathWyrmNexus

DeathWyrmNexus — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 15:36:11 +0000

Are you able to refute his point?

By: letr

letr — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 15:30:44 +0000

No, it’s because you sound like an 18 year old girl who just got home from her first Women’s Studies class at the local community college. You’d probably come off as slightly more intelligent if you dialed back on the smugness and moral superiority.

Passive aggressive manipulation isn’t a gender specific trait BTW.

By: DeathWyrmNexus

DeathWyrmNexus — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 15:28:31 +0000

Also, see the first line of my initial rant. Apparently a lot of people aren’t catching it.

By: DeathWyrmNexus

DeathWyrmNexus — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 15:26:54 +0000

Passive aggressiveness is a problem many suffer and it is not gender specific. Unfortunately my experience has more women than men playing the angle but that is just personal experience.

By: DeathWyrmNexus

DeathWyrmNexus — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 15:24:02 +0000

The important line you missed from the very beginning of my rant. The line that makes this entire conversation with you irrelevant as it was not addressing all women. Presenting the obvious line:

“In response to the support of mind games.”

Thank you and I apologize for not pointing that out sooner. Sorry you missed the obvious before posting.